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Happy International Men’s Day

Every year 19th November is celebrated as a International Men’s day and we also wish all the men in our life the same. But does anyone have ever wondered why is it celebrated?What is a importance of this day?


If we google about this day, you will find that International Men’s Day is a time for many people to reflect on the contributions, sacrifices and progress made by men in society.

But how many of us have really done this? How many of us has really appreciated men in our life or recognize their importance, their valuable contribution to our growth, sacrifices they have made?


Let’s talk about every men relationship we have in our life.


Father – firstly, I would like to thank them for giving me birth. In this society, girls are being killed, aborted because they won’t help with economic, they won’t continue family name.
I thank my father for saving me in this on going war against daughter. my father is a proud father of 3 daughter and a son. They have transferred good values to us, given good quality of education treated all of us same.

Brother – my first boy friend and I love him very much. Always protecting, caring, loving, educative, stylish and handsome man in my life. I am really blessed to have him.


Husband – This another handsome man has changed my life upside down. Nobody would have ever thought that I would marry him but we made it possible. The courage, I get from this soul is just awesome. We are completely different personality but match each other better. He is very cool, full of patience, cheerful husband, always ready to try new things in life.


Son – This little man has given meaning to my life. Everyday is like learning new lessons of life. Raising a child is never a easy but this cutie relives all our pain and turned them into happiness with his cute smile.


I am really lucky to have these wonderful men in my life.


I also never realized their importance until I started writing this.

Happy International Men’s Day to all handsome men in my life😘😘

Cheers🍻

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Happy Children’s Day

Whenever we think about children, small figure with cute smile, little little fingers, non stop talking comes into our mind which is obvious but if we look around, there are people who are old by age, tall by height, mature by talk but still children by heart.

Let’s talk about my parents, in laws or anyone who comes to visit us. When they start playing with Lashon(my kid), I see completely different person. All the maturity, manners, strictness everything just gets vanished and I see naughty young child inside them playing with my child.

Some who doesn’t like to talk much will start to talk in childish sound, they will sing nursery rhymes for him. Some who are not at all interested in sport, will throw/catch ball for him.
Some who are having back problems, will become horse  for him and ride him carefully on their back.

Some with joint pain will run behind him for whole day. Some who are not interested in cooking, tries to make nice dishes for him and put efforts to make sure that he will eat it happily.

This is what we always want in our life. Sometimes we thought that to have respectful life in society, we need to always live life full of disciplines, we must always talk with manners. We always have to show others how mature I am.

Why? Why should we always live for others? Why do we always think so much about others?

It’s our life and we should enjoy it to the fullest. We should always keep child inside us alive. Whatever age we are , we should take out some time for ourselves and do what we like the most.

Let the world see naughty, immature,  careless, cute, some times stubborn, child inside you.

Happy children’s day to all.

Cheers

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❤Family Support❤

There are many people in our life who play really important role but we don’t realize it.


After maternity, I was so excited to come to the office, but was not ready to leave my child alone at home. I was too worried for my child.


Even I had thought of quitting my job so that I can be with him.
But on the other side,now it is becoming very difficult to get jobs. So, quitting job was not a solution for me.


My husband and in-laws noticed my stressed behavior and asked me the reason for the same. I told them that I am worried about this little one and also can not quit my job. After hearing this they started laughing and said who asked you to leave You this job? Is this child only yours? Is he only your responsibility? Why are we here?
I found all my answers through these few questions and got relief.


Sometimes, we just have to ask. We keep thinking that this is something I have started so  only I will work on it or out of ego or fear or what he/she will think about me, we don’t ask for help and end up with worst decisions. Nobody is going to judge us if we reach out them for little help.


There are many cases where people including kids are taking wrong decisions because of office/study/exams pressure or just because they can not get marry to their loved ones.

Making haste decisions is not a solution to handle real life problems. If you really have guts, face it. Talk with with your parents, friends, relatives. You will definitely find someone standing with you on this and yes, it is true. I have my family standing with me, supporting me,taking care of my child, so that I can focus on my work without any worries. I had never thought that I would get so supporting parents just like my biological one.


Respect for all parent, in-laws, who looking after their grand kids❤❤.