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Upbringing

Nowadays we often see people talk about someone else’s #upbringing.

If the person is nice to them, they’ll say they are from good background, person’s parents have passed on good values, but if person is a bad mouth even if it is about telling truth, people will say, very bad human, no manners at all, parents have not taught anything, how to talk to elders and so on.


Why do we judge someone else’s parents based on their kids behavior? even if we don’t know them personally and even not seen them.


What exactly upbringing means to us?
As per #Google definition ” It is the treatment and instruction received by a child from its parents throughout #childhood”.

Very correctly said by Google but throughout its childhood, does child just grow with his/her parents?

I spend major part of a day with my kid but not a whole day. Rest of the time, you will find him with his grandparents, relatives, other kids.
Once he will start going school, he will spend most of his time in school with teachers, school friends, tution friends and so many other people.

Every people in his life will leave some impressions on him maybe good or bad. So apart from parents, all other people will also be teaching him something and which is a really good thing because only parents can not make their kid aware about entire world. It will be a contribution made by each and every people around him.

So in growing age, we need to make sure that our child is surrounded by good people. 90% of the brain development happens in early stage of childhood. During this stage, kids need motivation, support, proper communication which can be provided by his parents, care taker, relatives or teachers.

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Happy International Men’s Day

Every year 19th November is celebrated as a International Men’s day and we also wish all the men in our life the same. But does anyone have ever wondered why is it celebrated?What is a importance of this day?


If we google about this day, you will find that International Men’s Day is a time for many people to reflect on the contributions, sacrifices and progress made by men in society.

But how many of us have really done this? How many of us has really appreciated men in our life or recognize their importance, their valuable contribution to our growth, sacrifices they have made?


Let’s talk about every men relationship we have in our life.


Father – firstly, I would like to thank them for giving me birth. In this society, girls are being killed, aborted because they won’t help with economic, they won’t continue family name.
I thank my father for saving me in this on going war against daughter. my father is a proud father of 3 daughter and a son. They have transferred good values to us, given good quality of education treated all of us same.

Brother – my first boy friend and I love him very much. Always protecting, caring, loving, educative, stylish and handsome man in my life. I am really blessed to have him.


Husband – This another handsome man has changed my life upside down. Nobody would have ever thought that I would marry him but we made it possible. The courage, I get from this soul is just awesome. We are completely different personality but match each other better. He is very cool, full of patience, cheerful husband, always ready to try new things in life.


Son – This little man has given meaning to my life. Everyday is like learning new lessons of life. Raising a child is never a easy but this cutie relives all our pain and turned them into happiness with his cute smile.


I am really lucky to have these wonderful men in my life.


I also never realized their importance until I started writing this.

Happy International Men’s Day to all handsome men in my life😘😘

Cheers🍻

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Happy Children’s Day

Whenever we think about children, small figure with cute smile, little little fingers, non stop talking comes into our mind which is obvious but if we look around, there are people who are old by age, tall by height, mature by talk but still children by heart.

Let’s talk about my parents, in laws or anyone who comes to visit us. When they start playing with Lashon(my kid), I see completely different person. All the maturity, manners, strictness everything just gets vanished and I see naughty young child inside them playing with my child.

Some who doesn’t like to talk much will start to talk in childish sound, they will sing nursery rhymes for him. Some who are not at all interested in sport, will throw/catch ball for him.
Some who are having back problems, will become horse  for him and ride him carefully on their back.

Some with joint pain will run behind him for whole day. Some who are not interested in cooking, tries to make nice dishes for him and put efforts to make sure that he will eat it happily.

This is what we always want in our life. Sometimes we thought that to have respectful life in society, we need to always live life full of disciplines, we must always talk with manners. We always have to show others how mature I am.

Why? Why should we always live for others? Why do we always think so much about others?

It’s our life and we should enjoy it to the fullest. We should always keep child inside us alive. Whatever age we are , we should take out some time for ourselves and do what we like the most.

Let the world see naughty, immature,  careless, cute, some times stubborn, child inside you.

Happy children’s day to all.

Cheers

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Diwali celebration with my little one

This Diwali is very special for me because I am celebrating it with my little one whose eyes shine everytime he see LED lighting, who gets scared and hugs me tight after every crackle sound, who loves to eat ladoo making munching sound, and who loves to meet every person who comes to our place to visit.
I had never thought that my Diwali celebration will be so fun. Making faral (Diwali sweet), shopping new clothes, visit at places, meeting my relatives, spending quality time with family and old friends, all these made me and my cutie pie very happy.
This time we have celebrated with full of love, joy and most importantly pollution free Diwali.
Happy Diwali to all.
How was your Diwali?

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True happiness

I have seen many people spending money on toys,cars, teddy, dolls and too many things.
They think that, they are giving all happiness in the world to their children, but have any one ever observed when their baby gets more happy?
It is not when he plays with toys, but it is when he plays with us. He loves to spend time with his parents, his relatives.
When my baby sees me after 13/14 hours (when I return to home from office), he just leaves everything behind and crawl towards me. He just laughs loudly, he makes all sorts of happy noises (I feel like he is telling me that Mom I am very happy that you are home) and hugs me tightly. Every single day, he does the same, when he sees me.His smiling rosy lips, blinking eyes and loud happy noises makes my day.
This little kid of mine, who doesn’t even know how to walk, talk, but he knows where to find happiness, how to shower love upon them. His true happiness is when his loved ones are around him.
So, I just wanna tell one thing, spend time as much as you can with our loved ones.

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Motherhood

Motherhood- a new phase of my life is teaching me lessons every now and then. At first it seems really difficult but this feeling is just awesome. It makes you feel more responsible but at the same time, life is giving you a chance to become younger/kid again and I am definitely sure that you are gonna love it.

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The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me.

A start of new journey is a new phase of life which seems easier with a little faith and support of loved ones.

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