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Parenting-is it affecting couples bond?

Now it is been more than 4-5 days, we haven’t seen each other. Now we don’t get much time to spend with each other. Except for weekend, we don’t share food with each other. We mostly talk on phone but the call frequency has also reduced from 7-8 calls to 1-2, 5minutes each. Rarely we go out on date.
After #Avengers -End game, we haven’t seen any movie.

After reading this, someone will think that is there any problem in their relationship?

No

Now we are at the new phase of life with new beginning,new priorities, new daily schedule, new daily routine, new diet plan, new playlist(mainly nursery rhymes), new toys.

With this new start, everything seems to be different. Whatever I have mentioned earlier it’s really happening. Because of busy schedule, me and my husband are really not getting much time. This is a common problem which most of the couples face after having a kid. While trying to have a work-life balance, couples mostly forget to spend quality time with each other.

‘Before kid, after kid’ memes perfectly depicts our situation .

So, me and my husband came with the solution. Whatever time we are getting, we decided to make most of it.

Instead of going out on a date, we usually cook at home together(mostly my husband cooks, he is really a good chef) and try different dishes.Having food together watching Netflix is our favorite part. Sometimes we stay awake at night and finish our series like old times.
Whenever we get time, we go out on Beach with our kiddo. He just loves going out especially on bike(me too) . This makes our outing perfect.


In fact I feel like our bond is becoming stronger, we are understanding each other more. We have learnt to respect each other and our space and time. Care, love towards each other is also increasing.

Isn’t it easy to spend time our loved one in our own way?
How do you like to spend it with your loved one?


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Brain development

As we are already aware that, 90% of brain development happens in early stage of child. Along with it, there will be a development in other sectors like:
1.Physical Development
2.Language
3.Communication
4.Emotions
5.movement


All these abilities develops at different rate. With the development in these abilities, child
Learn to move, speak and think.

So, it is very important to provide proper guidance to kids during this stage.

Healthy diet will help kids for proper physical development but when it comes to mental development, they will need us. As postive development will be responsible for healthier, successful life. This will also help in  balanced emotions, decision making.

Since birth, babies  communicate either by cooing or smiling or crying. They try to communicate their needs through their actions.

In case of toddlers, they communicate directly. These are the best  opportunity for us to communicate with kids by responding to them. We should pay attention to their needs and interest which will help us to communicate more effectively with them.


We need to interact with them by talking, singing or reading something in front of them. We often see that babies always try to lip sync.

We usually play nursery rhymes on #Amazon prime Music. Sometimes,we use #YouTube. Nursery rhymes by #Dave&Eva are my favorite. The animation used in videos is so attractive and informative that easily catches my kid’s attention. He enjoys it a lot.

Time to time interaction with kids helps them to gain more trust in you and they feel safe, stable and confident when we are around.


Proper response, interaction with kids when they need us more, plays important role in brain development. Positive environment helps kids for bright future.