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Way to Success

It is always said that, ‘Self-belief and hard work will always earn you success’.

We work really hard to achieve something, sometimes we earn it too quickly and sometimes even after trying so hard, we fail.


People gets irritated, frustrated and give up on that.They forget to believe in themselves, they forget that it’s there will, which can help them to achieve anything.


Let’s take an example of kids, to stand up on their own feet, they need support, sometimes they take support of table, sometimes bed, sometimes wall, whatever thing where they can reach.
They try to stand once, twice, thrice and so on..
They fall too.

But they don’t give up until they actually stand up by themselves. They put all efforts to do so, and most importantly, they believe in themselves. They know that, if they keep on trying this, one day he/she won’t need any support anymore and will stand by themselves. And that is what we called as ‘SUCCESS’.


So learn to believe in yourself and work hard then success is no longer away from you.

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Motherhood or Career

Motherhood or career?

From a long time, we have seen that an ambitious working women are trying to maintain work life balance. Especially when it comes to motherhood, it becomes very difficult for them to choose one over other.


They have worked so hard to reach there and then giving up career, and staying at home, doing another critical job of raising children, is not a solution for them. But being mother, she can not choose career over motherhood, especifically in case where her child needs her more. We should not bring another human being if we can not be there to raise him properly, to give him quality time which is his right.

However, this is a completely temporary situation and best solution is to ask for help. Either one can leave her job temporarily and look after her children or she can just take help from her family or friends.
For me, second option works like magic.

If you have any other options, share in comments.

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Happy International Men’s Day

Every year 19th November is celebrated as a International Men’s day and we also wish all the men in our life the same. But does anyone have ever wondered why is it celebrated?What is a importance of this day?


If we google about this day, you will find that International Men’s Day is a time for many people to reflect on the contributions, sacrifices and progress made by men in society.

But how many of us have really done this? How many of us has really appreciated men in our life or recognize their importance, their valuable contribution to our growth, sacrifices they have made?


Let’s talk about every men relationship we have in our life.


Father – firstly, I would like to thank them for giving me birth. In this society, girls are being killed, aborted because they won’t help with economic, they won’t continue family name.
I thank my father for saving me in this on going war against daughter. my father is a proud father of 3 daughter and a son. They have transferred good values to us, given good quality of education treated all of us same.

Brother – my first boy friend and I love him very much. Always protecting, caring, loving, educative, stylish and handsome man in my life. I am really blessed to have him.


Husband – This another handsome man has changed my life upside down. Nobody would have ever thought that I would marry him but we made it possible. The courage, I get from this soul is just awesome. We are completely different personality but match each other better. He is very cool, full of patience, cheerful husband, always ready to try new things in life.


Son – This little man has given meaning to my life. Everyday is like learning new lessons of life. Raising a child is never a easy but this cutie relives all our pain and turned them into happiness with his cute smile.


I am really lucky to have these wonderful men in my life.


I also never realized their importance until I started writing this.

Happy International Men’s Day to all handsome men in my life😘😘

Cheers🍻

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Happy Children’s Day

Whenever we think about children, small figure with cute smile, little little fingers, non stop talking comes into our mind which is obvious but if we look around, there are people who are old by age, tall by height, mature by talk but still children by heart.

Let’s talk about my parents, in laws or anyone who comes to visit us. When they start playing with Lashon(my kid), I see completely different person. All the maturity, manners, strictness everything just gets vanished and I see naughty young child inside them playing with my child.

Some who doesn’t like to talk much will start to talk in childish sound, they will sing nursery rhymes for him. Some who are not at all interested in sport, will throw/catch ball for him.
Some who are having back problems, will become horse  for him and ride him carefully on their back.

Some with joint pain will run behind him for whole day. Some who are not interested in cooking, tries to make nice dishes for him and put efforts to make sure that he will eat it happily.

This is what we always want in our life. Sometimes we thought that to have respectful life in society, we need to always live life full of disciplines, we must always talk with manners. We always have to show others how mature I am.

Why? Why should we always live for others? Why do we always think so much about others?

It’s our life and we should enjoy it to the fullest. We should always keep child inside us alive. Whatever age we are , we should take out some time for ourselves and do what we like the most.

Let the world see naughty, immature,  careless, cute, some times stubborn, child inside you.

Happy children’s day to all.

Cheers

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❤Family Support❤

There are many people in our life who play really important role but we don’t realize it.


After maternity, I was so excited to come to the office, but was not ready to leave my child alone at home. I was too worried for my child.


Even I had thought of quitting my job so that I can be with him.
But on the other side,now it is becoming very difficult to get jobs. So, quitting job was not a solution for me.


My husband and in-laws noticed my stressed behavior and asked me the reason for the same. I told them that I am worried about this little one and also can not quit my job. After hearing this they started laughing and said who asked you to leave You this job? Is this child only yours? Is he only your responsibility? Why are we here?
I found all my answers through these few questions and got relief.


Sometimes, we just have to ask. We keep thinking that this is something I have started so  only I will work on it or out of ego or fear or what he/she will think about me, we don’t ask for help and end up with worst decisions. Nobody is going to judge us if we reach out them for little help.


There are many cases where people including kids are taking wrong decisions because of office/study/exams pressure or just because they can not get marry to their loved ones.

Making haste decisions is not a solution to handle real life problems. If you really have guts, face it. Talk with with your parents, friends, relatives. You will definitely find someone standing with you on this and yes, it is true. I have my family standing with me, supporting me,taking care of my child, so that I can focus on my work without any worries. I had never thought that I would get so supporting parents just like my biological one.


Respect for all parent, in-laws, who looking after their grand kids❤❤.

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Tough Task – Parenting🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Parenting is not easy as I thought. Everyday, every hour and sometimes every minute seems to be different.

You will be different parent every morning to a child who also be different, sometimes changing in hours or in minutes. With change, some days will be good, some will be bad.

On some days, you will get enough sleep, some will be sleepless nights. There will be good choices and not so good ones. Sometimes decisions you are making for your child may go wrong, but that is okay, this is your first time. You will learn from your mistakes.

There will be smiling days and then there will be days when your child might cry for hours and hours.

In some house function, you will look the most beautiful, stunning woman but there also be days where you might look tired, sick with messy hair in loose gown roaming in house, running behind your kid, playing with him, feeding him, talking with him, laughing with him, and crying, seeing him crying.

But don’t get scared. Be gentle with yourself because your child needs you more. This is just a temporary phase of your life which will be over soon without you even realizing it.

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Diwali celebration with my little one

This Diwali is very special for me because I am celebrating it with my little one whose eyes shine everytime he see LED lighting, who gets scared and hugs me tight after every crackle sound, who loves to eat ladoo making munching sound, and who loves to meet every person who comes to our place to visit.
I had never thought that my Diwali celebration will be so fun. Making faral (Diwali sweet), shopping new clothes, visit at places, meeting my relatives, spending quality time with family and old friends, all these made me and my cutie pie very happy.
This time we have celebrated with full of love, joy and most importantly pollution free Diwali.
Happy Diwali to all.
How was your Diwali?

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Thought for Monday

Wise man speaks because they have something to say.

Fools speak because they have to say something.

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True happiness

I have seen many people spending money on toys,cars, teddy, dolls and too many things.
They think that, they are giving all happiness in the world to their children, but have any one ever observed when their baby gets more happy?
It is not when he plays with toys, but it is when he plays with us. He loves to spend time with his parents, his relatives.
When my baby sees me after 13/14 hours (when I return to home from office), he just leaves everything behind and crawl towards me. He just laughs loudly, he makes all sorts of happy noises (I feel like he is telling me that Mom I am very happy that you are home) and hugs me tightly. Every single day, he does the same, when he sees me.His smiling rosy lips, blinking eyes and loud happy noises makes my day.
This little kid of mine, who doesn’t even know how to walk, talk, but he knows where to find happiness, how to shower love upon them. His true happiness is when his loved ones are around him.
So, I just wanna tell one thing, spend time as much as you can with our loved ones.

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Motherhood

Motherhood- a new phase of my life is teaching me lessons every now and then. At first it seems really difficult but this feeling is just awesome. It makes you feel more responsible but at the same time, life is giving you a chance to become younger/kid again and I am definitely sure that you are gonna love it.