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Parenting-is it affecting couples bond?

Now it is been more than 4-5 days, we haven’t seen each other. Now we don’t get much time to spend with each other. Except for weekend, we don’t share food with each other. We mostly talk on phone but the call frequency has also reduced from 7-8 calls to 1-2, 5minutes each. Rarely we go out on date.
After #Avengers -End game, we haven’t seen any movie.

After reading this, someone will think that is there any problem in their relationship?

No

Now we are at the new phase of life with new beginning,new priorities, new daily schedule, new daily routine, new diet plan, new playlist(mainly nursery rhymes), new toys.

With this new start, everything seems to be different. Whatever I have mentioned earlier it’s really happening. Because of busy schedule, me and my husband are really not getting much time. This is a common problem which most of the couples face after having a kid. While trying to have a work-life balance, couples mostly forget to spend quality time with each other.

‘Before kid, after kid’ memes perfectly depicts our situation .

So, me and my husband came with the solution. Whatever time we are getting, we decided to make most of it.

Instead of going out on a date, we usually cook at home together(mostly my husband cooks, he is really a good chef) and try different dishes.Having food together watching Netflix is our favorite part. Sometimes we stay awake at night and finish our series like old times.
Whenever we get time, we go out on Beach with our kiddo. He just loves going out especially on bike(me too) . This makes our outing perfect.


In fact I feel like our bond is becoming stronger, we are understanding each other more. We have learnt to respect each other and our space and time. Care, love towards each other is also increasing.

Isn’t it easy to spend time our loved one in our own way?
How do you like to spend it with your loved one?


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Brain development

As we are already aware that, 90% of brain development happens in early stage of child. Along with it, there will be a development in other sectors like:
1.Physical Development
2.Language
3.Communication
4.Emotions
5.movement


All these abilities develops at different rate. With the development in these abilities, child
Learn to move, speak and think.

So, it is very important to provide proper guidance to kids during this stage.

Healthy diet will help kids for proper physical development but when it comes to mental development, they will need us. As postive development will be responsible for healthier, successful life. This will also help in  balanced emotions, decision making.

Since birth, babies  communicate either by cooing or smiling or crying. They try to communicate their needs through their actions.

In case of toddlers, they communicate directly. These are the best  opportunity for us to communicate with kids by responding to them. We should pay attention to their needs and interest which will help us to communicate more effectively with them.


We need to interact with them by talking, singing or reading something in front of them. We often see that babies always try to lip sync.

We usually play nursery rhymes on #Amazon prime Music. Sometimes,we use #YouTube. Nursery rhymes by #Dave&Eva are my favorite. The animation used in videos is so attractive and informative that easily catches my kid’s attention. He enjoys it a lot.

Time to time interaction with kids helps them to gain more trust in you and they feel safe, stable and confident when we are around.


Proper response, interaction with kids when they need us more, plays important role in brain development. Positive environment helps kids for bright future.

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Upbringing

Nowadays we often see people talk about someone else’s #upbringing.

If the person is nice to them, they’ll say they are from good background, person’s parents have passed on good values, but if person is a bad mouth even if it is about telling truth, people will say, very bad human, no manners at all, parents have not taught anything, how to talk to elders and so on.


Why do we judge someone else’s parents based on their kids behavior? even if we don’t know them personally and even not seen them.


What exactly upbringing means to us?
As per #Google definition ” It is the treatment and instruction received by a child from its parents throughout #childhood”.

Very correctly said by Google but throughout its childhood, does child just grow with his/her parents?

I spend major part of a day with my kid but not a whole day. Rest of the time, you will find him with his grandparents, relatives, other kids.
Once he will start going school, he will spend most of his time in school with teachers, school friends, tution friends and so many other people.

Every people in his life will leave some impressions on him maybe good or bad. So apart from parents, all other people will also be teaching him something and which is a really good thing because only parents can not make their kid aware about entire world. It will be a contribution made by each and every people around him.

So in growing age, we need to make sure that our child is surrounded by good people. 90% of the brain development happens in early stage of childhood. During this stage, kids need motivation, support, proper communication which can be provided by his parents, care taker, relatives or teachers.