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Upbringing

Nowadays we often see people talk about someone else’s #upbringing.

If the person is nice to them, they’ll say they are from good background, person’s parents have passed on good values, but if person is a bad mouth even if it is about telling truth, people will say, very bad human, no manners at all, parents have not taught anything, how to talk to elders and so on.


Why do we judge someone else’s parents based on their kids behavior? even if we don’t know them personally and even not seen them.


What exactly upbringing means to us?
As per #Google definition ” It is the treatment and instruction received by a child from its parents throughout #childhood”.

Very correctly said by Google but throughout its childhood, does child just grow with his/her parents?

I spend major part of a day with my kid but not a whole day. Rest of the time, you will find him with his grandparents, relatives, other kids.
Once he will start going school, he will spend most of his time in school with teachers, school friends, tution friends and so many other people.

Every people in his life will leave some impressions on him maybe good or bad. So apart from parents, all other people will also be teaching him something and which is a really good thing because only parents can not make their kid aware about entire world. It will be a contribution made by each and every people around him.

So in growing age, we need to make sure that our child is surrounded by good people. 90% of the brain development happens in early stage of childhood. During this stage, kids need motivation, support, proper communication which can be provided by his parents, care taker, relatives or teachers.

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Way to Success

It is always said that, ‘Self-belief and hard work will always earn you success’.

We work really hard to achieve something, sometimes we earn it too quickly and sometimes even after trying so hard, we fail.


People gets irritated, frustrated and give up on that.They forget to believe in themselves, they forget that it’s there will, which can help them to achieve anything.


Let’s take an example of kids, to stand up on their own feet, they need support, sometimes they take support of table, sometimes bed, sometimes wall, whatever thing where they can reach.
They try to stand once, twice, thrice and so on..
They fall too.

But they don’t give up until they actually stand up by themselves. They put all efforts to do so, and most importantly, they believe in themselves. They know that, if they keep on trying this, one day he/she won’t need any support anymore and will stand by themselves. And that is what we called as ‘SUCCESS’.


So learn to believe in yourself and work hard then success is no longer away from you.

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Motherhood or Career

Motherhood or career?

From a long time, we have seen that an ambitious working women are trying to maintain work life balance. Especially when it comes to motherhood, it becomes very difficult for them to choose one over other.


They have worked so hard to reach there and then giving up career, and staying at home, doing another critical job of raising children, is not a solution for them. But being mother, she can not choose career over motherhood, especifically in case where her child needs her more. We should not bring another human being if we can not be there to raise him properly, to give him quality time which is his right.

However, this is a completely temporary situation and best solution is to ask for help. Either one can leave her job temporarily and look after her children or she can just take help from her family or friends.
For me, second option works like magic.

If you have any other options, share in comments.

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❤Family Support❤

There are many people in our life who play really important role but we don’t realize it.


After maternity, I was so excited to come to the office, but was not ready to leave my child alone at home. I was too worried for my child.


Even I had thought of quitting my job so that I can be with him.
But on the other side,now it is becoming very difficult to get jobs. So, quitting job was not a solution for me.


My husband and in-laws noticed my stressed behavior and asked me the reason for the same. I told them that I am worried about this little one and also can not quit my job. After hearing this they started laughing and said who asked you to leave You this job? Is this child only yours? Is he only your responsibility? Why are we here?
I found all my answers through these few questions and got relief.


Sometimes, we just have to ask. We keep thinking that this is something I have started so  only I will work on it or out of ego or fear or what he/she will think about me, we don’t ask for help and end up with worst decisions. Nobody is going to judge us if we reach out them for little help.


There are many cases where people including kids are taking wrong decisions because of office/study/exams pressure or just because they can not get marry to their loved ones.

Making haste decisions is not a solution to handle real life problems. If you really have guts, face it. Talk with with your parents, friends, relatives. You will definitely find someone standing with you on this and yes, it is true. I have my family standing with me, supporting me,taking care of my child, so that I can focus on my work without any worries. I had never thought that I would get so supporting parents just like my biological one.


Respect for all parent, in-laws, who looking after their grand kids❤❤.