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Motherhood or Career

Motherhood or career?

From a long time, we have seen that an ambitious working women are trying to maintain work life balance. Especially when it comes to motherhood, it becomes very difficult for them to choose one over other.


They have worked so hard to reach there and then giving up career, and staying at home, doing another critical job of raising children, is not a solution for them. But being mother, she can not choose career over motherhood, especifically in case where her child needs her more. We should not bring another human being if we can not be there to raise him properly, to give him quality time which is his right.

However, this is a completely temporary situation and best solution is to ask for help. Either one can leave her job temporarily and look after her children or she can just take help from her family or friends.
For me, second option works like magic.

If you have any other options, share in comments.

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Tough Task – Parenting🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Parenting is not easy as I thought. Everyday, every hour and sometimes every minute seems to be different.

You will be different parent every morning to a child who also be different, sometimes changing in hours or in minutes. With change, some days will be good, some will be bad.

On some days, you will get enough sleep, some will be sleepless nights. There will be good choices and not so good ones. Sometimes decisions you are making for your child may go wrong, but that is okay, this is your first time. You will learn from your mistakes.

There will be smiling days and then there will be days when your child might cry for hours and hours.

In some house function, you will look the most beautiful, stunning woman but there also be days where you might look tired, sick with messy hair in loose gown roaming in house, running behind your kid, playing with him, feeding him, talking with him, laughing with him, and crying, seeing him crying.

But don’t get scared. Be gentle with yourself because your child needs you more. This is just a temporary phase of your life which will be over soon without you even realizing it.